Wednesday, December 21, 2011
What is Love?
To express my feelings
The heart that lived
became a cerebral hemisphere
I used to feel and
Now I think and
In words
So nothings' real.
I used to feel
Without the words
And now I think
With words,
That have no meaning
And what is love?
A thought or feeling?
A heart pierced by Cupids' arrow
Or a mere conscious recognition
That loves' a word
A word
Without a meaning.
I once was love
A Cupids' heart
A feeling without words.
And now I rest
Attached to words
Which can't be seen or touched or heard
But they are valued more than love
Since they express the great
I AM.
Philosophers say words exist
But
Without feelings
Where is love?
Where can I touch it
See it.
Feel it.
It's lost, to words,
Found in a brain,
That lives totally
Alone.
My heart's my soul
My soul is one
With all the heavens and all the suns
My soul is love
A wordless feeling
That needs no thinking
To be real.
Oh tis true that love is blind
It's quiet, peaceful , speechless
Absorbed in all it is,
In life, in breath and feelings
A Lady's Life
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Parrot Jokes.
A woman is strolling down the road to work and she espies a parrot in a pet store. The parrot says to her, "Hey you lady, you are really ugly." The lady is furious! And she rushes past the pet store to go to work. After finishing her shift she saw the same parrot in the shop window and the parrot repeated what it had said earlier, "Hey lady, you are really ugly." She is now even more furious. The following morning she received the same verbal abuse from the parrot. "Hey lady, you are really ugly." This time she was standing no nonsense and stormed into the store and said that she would sue the store and slaughter the bird. The store manager said, "That's not good." and promised he wouldn't say it again. When the lady walked past the pet store after work the parrot said to her, "Hey lady." She paused and said, "Yes?" and the parrot said, "You know."
Just before Christmas, a man enters a pet store looking for a special present for his wife. The pet store owner tells him he has just what he's looking for; a beautiful parrot named Chet that can sing Christmas carols. He ushers the husband over to a colourful but very quiet bird. The man agrees with the pet store owner that Chet is certainly pretty, but he doesn't seem to be up much for singing a tune. The owner of the pet store tells him to watch as he reaches into his pocket and pulls out a lighter. The owner clicks the lighter and holds it under Chet's left foot. The bird Chet immediately responds by singing at the top of its voice; "Silent Night, Holy Night." The husband is very impressed with Chet's singing qualities and watches as the manager moves the lighter underneath Chet's right foot. Chet now breaks into tune again singing "Jingle Bells." The husband now even more excited says Chet is the ideal gift for his wife and buys him. The husband speeds home as fast as his feet will take him to give his wife this wonderful gift. He presents Chet and starts to explain the parrot's special talent. Demonstrating, what he had seen the pet store owner do he holds a lighter under Chet's left foot and the bird sings "Silent Night." Then moving the lighter under the right foot Chet starts singing a chorus of "Jingle Bells." The wife is impressed, and with a naughty grin asks her husband what happens if he holds the lighter between Chet's both legs. Curious the husband moves the lighter between the bird's legs, and the parrot begins to sing--- Chet's Nuts Roasting on an Open Fire!
A young man's mother was now living in Miami Beach and he didn't get to see her as often as he would like. His father was no longer around and he felt saddened for his mother being lonely. So for his mother’s birthday, he purchased a very rare parrot, trained to speak seven languages. He made arrangements for a courier service to deliver the bird to his dear mother. After a few days he called. "Hey Mom, what do you think of the bird?" "The bird was good, but a little tough. I should have cooked it longer." "You ate the bird? Didn’t you know it was of rare breed and was very expensive? It had a talent where it could speak seven languages!" "Oh, excuse me replied the mom - if the parrot was so smart, why didn't it say something when I put it in the oven?"
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Abram Petrovich Hannibal and Alexander Pushkin
(who was taken captive and brought to Istanbul) to Russia.
Peter baptized him and gave him his name, Peter, and Gen Hannibal’s last name.
Abram Petrovich Hannibal
was then sent to France to be educated in 7 languages, history, arts, science, math, geometry, war fare, etc.
In France he met Diderot.
Voltaire, called Hannibal “a dark star of enlightenment”.
Hannibal became Captain and then came back to Russia.
When Peter died Hannibal was sent to Siberia but when Peter’s Daughter Elizabeth became Queen,
she brought him back.
He became a General and she gave him land and serfs.
Hannibal married a Greek woman Evdokia Dioper.
It was a forced marriage and she began to cheat on him so he put her in jail for
11 years and later divorced her.
He then got himself a Scandinavian girl Christina Regina Sioberg 1705 – 1781
He had 10 children with her.
One of these children was Osip.
Osip had a daughter Nadezhda who married Serge Pushkin and became the Mother of Alexander Pushkin.
Pushkin was not a likeable child and his Mom sent him to his Grand Mothers a lot but he was really raised by his Nanny, Arina Rodionovna .
She loved him, read to him, pampered him.
It is for her he wrote a lovely poem.
According to the family tree , it seems there was some family intermarriage.
Abram Hannibal had a son Osip, who married a Maria Pushkin
They had a daughter Nadezsda.
Nadezsda married Sergei Pushkin, son of Lev Pushkin and Olga Pushkin
Nadezshda and Sergei had Alexander Pushkin.
Pushkin was said to have had a hot temper , gambled and loved women.
They blamed it on his black side .
Pushkin died in a duel trying to protect his wife’s honor.
Pushkins blood can be found in British Natalia Grosvenor, Duchess of Westminster
And George Mountbatten, 4th Marquess of Milford Haven.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yb6VA4Y8H_o&feature=related
Hawaiian African mix
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51566o8omw0&feature=related
Plijik Babylonian music
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Happy Tuesday (pets)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h6ojGM3czbk&feature=relatedsarah brightman
don't cry for me argentina
GOOD MORNING!!!
Happy Tuesday to Everyone and Thanks for visiting a Lady's Life.
Listening to the news sure puts a damper on life.
The economy is especially frightening to most people.
One good thing though.
People are beginning to fight back .
Some want to keep chickens in their back yards because
they say government should not tell people what kind of food they should eat.
I agree.
Ducks are easier to keep because they waddle around eating any bugs you may have in the lawn and their soft quacking is very soothing.
You don't have to use artificial fertilizers on your lawn because they fertilize it for you.
When I was little, my Dad always had rabbits or chicks or ducks for me in summer and in winter they'd be supper.
Of course I'd never know. They would just disappear and I'd eat lunch and then go look for them, asking all the neighbors if they saw my animals running around. Of course every one said no.
Had I known I was eating my pets, I don't think I could have.
How do you eat Missy?
Ok. Bitey I could eat lol
Many people kept such pets and every ones back yards was one big garden.
One day on my way to school, I saw this white chicken running down the street being chased by a cat.
He ran right into my arms so I took it home.
He was a great little guy and slept in my lap. Finally my Dad said we can't keep him. Let's give him to your Gramma.
Gramma tied his leg to a rope and kept him under her balcony.
He grew up to be this huge gray rooster. A real handsome sort.
He loved my Gramma but when I came to see my little chicken, he chased me up the stairs so quickly I just barely had enough time to shut the door.
My Dad laughed and went out . The rooster ran up to him . He put one wing down and danced around him in a ritual like performance. My Dad kept turning and the rooster walked around him as well with his wing down caw caw cawing. My Dad knew he wouldn't bite him.
I have to give it to my Dad. He sure knew his animals.
My Mom never liked animals but he was a tinkerer and into everything.
The Rooster had become a guard dog and wouldn't let any one into the yard.
My Gramma was real proud of him
I guess my Gramma told my Dad it was time.
He wasn't as lucky as the Pig who saved the Farmer and his wife and just lost a leg cause you can't eat a good pig like that in one shot. lol
Here in BC, we kept Buster the rabbit. He had long floppy ears and was so cute looking.
Whenever he'd get upset over something he'd thump on his aquarium so we'd know something was not right.
He was like a guard as well sitting in his prefab home.
He gave us such good fertizer, my roses bloomed none stop, bud after bud till the end January and into February. I was impressed.
We exchanged him for a dozen eggs lol
I couldn't imagine eating Buster.
Have a happy day everyone. :)
Morning rooster crows. My rooster didn't know how to crow He skipped a beat
Just went ha haha haaaaaaaaaaa These guys here are pros.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIVmvxv7Yi8&feature=related
Crazy Egg Experiment
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSLGPl2qU4o&feature=related
Monday, March 30, 2009
karaoke songs to Enjoy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lCK2X1oEyP4&feature=related
walk away matt Monroe
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqKCzCtiZ8A&feature=related
how can I tell her
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EYd2oRPsUCA&feature=related
tell laura I love her
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mXTtThiFoQ&feature=channel
bluberry hill fats domino
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODAdw-B9dmg&feature=related
All I have to do is dream ???
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70rd01Je7aI&feature=related
those were the days
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=306EBB8Mik0&feature=related
let it be
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d8ZlvC7H2I8&feature=related
don’t cry Johnny
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNDbJskVcJg&feature=related
sealed with a kiss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGIn-9pGGUk&feature=channel
chiquita
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LISz7t_q4TY&feature=related
changing partners
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7ELyTolfhg&feature=related
tennesee waltz
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swso2DEzghA&feature=related
blowing in the wind.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEFH0jeqaLo&feature=related
summer wine
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nS6LFYU96WE&feature=related
as tears go by
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnp0XAAnQuk&feature=related
rose rose I love you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVKhwEG35bE&feature=channel_page
house of the rising sun
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLDaJKMoHDc&feature=related
the wedding
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qe0Nkt9WU6s&feature=related
river of no return
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lmN2sWt4vw&feature=channel
very superstitious
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8zkbKM9eBzQ&feature=related
sad movies make me cry
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8hkNuR-R9g&feature=related
you needed me.
Friday, March 27, 2009
It's Too Late to Make New Enemies (Voltaire)
La Mer - Charles Trenet

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fd_nopTFuZA

Voltaire once said :
All sects are different, because they come from men;
Morality is everywhere the same, because it comes from God.
If God didn’t exist, we’d need to invent him.
If Voltaire woke up today, I believe he’d fit right into our contemporary society.
Voltaire is a name we know him by but his birth name was Francois Marie Arouet.
His life, was anything but boring.
He was an enlightened satirist, always learning, promoting skepticism, criticizing everything:
Aristocracy, religion, bigotry, tyranny, democracy, the Bible, the
Roman Catholic church, Islam. etc..
He tried to make people think rather than accept things thrown at them and the
establishment didn’t like it and burnt his books but the more they burnt,
the more people wanted to read him and many did and still do today.
He died at a ripe old age of 84, in May 1778 , leaving behind over
2000 books and 14,ooo letters.
His humanist stance, offended many and landed him in jail and exile many
times but they were all used as learning experiences.
His 15 year liason with Mme Chatelet, a scientist and mathematician,
gave him an opportunity to experiment with Isaac Newton’s ideas,
study Confucious, and get into areas of philosophy and metaphysics and
the idea of separation of Church and State etc…
His 3 year exile to England taught him about Constitutional Monarchy,
Civil and Social Freedoms and Free Trade.
France had an Absolute Monarchy then and Voltaire believed in enlightened
despotism because he said you needed educated leaders to make change.
Voltaire was very special and two things he did were truly exceptional.
One was his objection to the torture and death of Calas, a man accused of killing
his own son because they said he didn’t want him to become Roman Catholic.
Calas lost all his assets and his children were sent to a monastery. Voltaire went out
of his way to exonerate the family because he saw it as religious persecution.
The Second thing we can admire him for is his stance for womens rights in his poem :
Maid of New Orleans ( really the story of Joan of Arc. But he never finished it.
Tchaikovsky also wrote a play on her).
After all Joan did for France, France betrayed her.
Joan fell in love with an English Knight who changed sides and fought for France just to be with her.
Her Dad Thibault, thought she was possessed because of all the prophetic dreams she had which
got her kings trust and thus to her leading him to his coronation.
( since she made this possible for him)
Thibault asked her if she was pure and holy and because of her liason with her love Lionel,
she could not say yes.
They mistook this as an admission to being possessed and banished her.
The English caught her. They killed Lionel and burnt her at the stake as a witch.
She became a Martyr and a Saint . Voltaire saw this as tyranny, bigotry and persecution of women.
On his death bed they asked Voltaire to renounce the devil and return to God to which he replied:
“ It’s too late to make new enemies.”
I have never made but one prayer to God, a very short one: "Oh Lord, make my enemies ridiculous.' And God granted it.
Voltaire
MONET - RED BOATS ARGENTEUIL
Love is a Many Splendored Thing Matt Monroe
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_89U-N-5w0g
The Sun is out and the Birds are singing and Spring is in the air.
All is good .
La Playa
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Enlightend Roaches.

Dominick Dunne:
"Most of us spend too much time on the last twenty four hours
and too little on the last six thousand years."
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I had never seen a cockroach as a child. In fact, I don’t know why they are called cockroaches
since they come from the latin word
“blatta” , meaning as we know it today, cockroach.
There’s about 4000 different kinds and they don’t usually grow over 3 inches.
The first time I laid eyes on one was in Florida, on a palm tree.
This HUMUNGOUS golden brown beauty, just sat there, glorifying its gorgeousness for the world to see and it was over three inches long.
(I SWEAR)
I HAD to ask a local what this beautiful bug was. So I did.
The look I got for this question was like: “Are you insane?” and then he answered:
“It’s a cockroach.” My face must have shown how shocked I was at learning this.
To this day, I have never again seen one like it ....ANYWHERE.
I kept thinking to myself how could people have such things in their homes?
Our first newly wed apartment, was in a brand new building.
It wasn’t long before I saw bugs coming out of my bathroom sink.
I caught one in a jar and plugged up all the sinks and bathtubs and took it to the janitor,
who became increasingly alarmed because
he found them in his apartment as well.
Both our apartments were 2 floors and in between us was a small one bedroom flat.
And so began the story…….
The Janitor opened the door to that flat and was appalled to find it literally covered
from top to bottom with roaches.
He almost cried.
They were everywhere!
It was a major ordeal getting them out of the building
but ………this was how I was introduced to Buddhism. lol
The couple who rented this flat were Oriental and Buddhists, who don’t kill bugs.
We often wonder, even today, how they slept?
It was Ironic in that “The Buddha” is otherwise known as
“The Awakened One”.lol
There are around 500,000 Buddhists today who believe every living thing has it’s place and reason for being and it must be respected as all nature, so it doesn’t revolt.
Buddhism exists now for over 2,500 years.
Buddhists believe, anyone following the Buddha, can have spiritual enlightenment or awakening and become like him.
If any one ever rubbed a Buddhas belly, he would know that there is some truth to that belief. lol
The Eightfold Path teaches how to stop suffering life and learning to live it.
The Four Noble Truths teach the path that must be taken to reach Enlightenment.
I truly only began to understand all this, once I accidentally found an Enormous Buddha, sitting in a mountain, in Malaysia, in the middle of no where..... in ABSOLUTE PEACE AND QUIET.
It blew my mind.
And all this ……….because of Cockroaches…….. truly Enlightened Creatures, having lived for over 350 million years on this planet.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Time Takes Care of Love
Sir Julius Huxley: 1887 - 1975
Religion without Revelation
"Operationally, God is beginning to resemble not a ruler but the last fading smile of a cosmic Cheshire cat"
Once upon a time Prosperity, Vanity, Sorrow, Happiness, and Love went to a lush Island Marina on vacation.
Clouds began to form and soon they were told by the Hotel, the Island had to be evacuated because a big storm was coming.
Every one panicked and began rushing for their boats, except Love, because there were so many people to help and things to do to prepare for the storm.
When she was finally ready to depart, she saw her boat was gone.
She saw Prosperity on her luxurious boat and called out: “Prosperity! Could you please take me in your boat? Some one took mine!!”
“No!” She yelled back.“ It”s full of gold, silver and diamonds. There’s no more room!!”
Vanity was circling her way out of the waves . Love Called out Vanity! “Can you help me and take me with you?”
“No! You’re all dirty and wet! And I need to get this boat back before it gets to be the same!!”
Love ran up the beach and saw Sorrow and thought Sorrow will surely take Her so she called out to her as well and asked.
“No.” cried sorrow. “I just want to be alone!” and as for Happiness well she just flew by on her sails and didn’t even look to see if any one needed help.
But then finally a small boat came by and she heard some one yell: “ Come on Love! Jump on and hold on tight!” Love was only too happy for the kind hand.
When they reached a safe cove to stowe their boat, Love was dropped off on the pier and Knowledge was there to greet her.
Before she could say anything to the boat that saved her, it pushed off and left.
So she turned and asked Knowledge who it was that saved her? “Oh “, said Knowledge. “That was Time.”
“Time? Why would he want to save me.?”
Knowledge, being full of wisdom, answered. , “Because ….only Time knows your true greatness and what you are capable of.
Time knows, only Love can bring peace and happiness to the world.”
When you’re prosperous you overlook Love. When you’re important, happy or sorrowful you forget Love.
But with Time, you realize just how important Love is.
Oh Mother you weep at your child’s feet
Like Mary wept for her Jesus.
You wash and kiss his feet
If only he were alive here to feel them.
Oh Mother you’d die if you knew it would help
To bring him back to be nurtured
To bring him back to live under the sun
To a life he was promised and robbed of.
Oh Mother you’d fly your soul to the sky
On a string if only to catch his
And pull him back to a heart that will bleed
If they force you to live without him.
Oh Mother what’s left in this life without hope
What’s left without the future?
Oh Mother you weep
But he’s by your feet if only you knew he’s around you.
Oh Mother so kind, he’s holding your hand
Caressing your curls of gray
Whispering tenderness into the holes of your heart
So it heals and stays strong today.
Oh Mother please feel me here right by your side
For I am ok and fine
Where ever I go I won’t forget
The Mother who loved me and cried.
Oh Mother trust in what’s right and what’s wrong.
Believe that there must be a good reason
One day I shall stand again by your side,
With warm kisses and candles to greet you.
Oh Mother you weep at your child’s feet
Feeling his presence around you
Your heavy soul consoled in deep sleep
Knowing that there you can hold him.
Peace finally settles on your furrowed black brow,
As you see him in the bright glowing light
He is safe and at play and you stand and pray
That he doesn’t forget to eat lunch.
The Last Unicorn
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5TWkYYkmp9c
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Mother Teresa died and went to heaven. God greeted her at the Pearly Gates. "Be thou hungry, Mother Teresa?" asked God.
"I could eat," Mother Teresa replied.
So God opened a can of tuna and reached for a chunk of rye bread and they began to share it. While eating this humble meal, Mother Teresa looked down into Hell and saw the inhabitants devouring huge steaks, lobsters, pheasants, and pastries. Curious, but deeply trusting, she remained quiet.
The next day God again invited her to join him for a meal. Again, it was tuna and rye bread. Once again, Mother Teresa could see the denizens of Hell enjoying lamb, turkey, venison, and delicious desserts. Still she said nothing.
The following day, mealtime arrived and another can of tuna was opened. She couldn't contain herself any longer. Meekly, she asked, "God, I am grateful to be in heaven with you as a reward for the pious, obedient life I led. But here in heaven all I get to eat is tuna and a piece of rye bread and in the Other Place they eat like emperors and kings! I just don't understand it..."
God sighed. "Let's be honest Teresa," He said, ". . . for just two people, it doesn't pay to cook."
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Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Amerindians Taught How To Plant Corn
The gift was marked by a Treaty: Human Beings and Corn had to work together to feed the nations. Each were to depend on the other for their survival. That is why there is no such thing as "wild Corn". By the time Europeans arrived on these shores, the Original American scientists had long before domesticated Corn and bred hundreds of different variations.
The Treaty still works today: Corn is one of the few plants, perhaps the only plant, whose seeds must be planted by human beings if she is to grow and survive. One the other hand, if Corn stopped supplying its nourishment, there would be extreme hunger all over the world. Next time you eat some popCorn or Corn-on-the-cob, you can recognize the benefits of cooperation.
Corn was usually planted with Beans and Squash in the same hole, and they worked together so closely they were called "The Three Sisters". The Corn provided a stalk for the Bean vines to climb around, and the Beans returned the favor by replacing the nitrogen in the soil. The Squash spread out its broad shady leaves to keep other plants from crowding out the Corn. By observing the way the Three Sisters work together, we learn the value of productive inter-relationships of human beings.
Traditionally, we planted the Three Sisters in April, May, and June so we would have a long season of good eating. Usually the outside row od corn was dedicated to the animals, and the next row was dedicated to the use of passers-by who might be hungry. The rest of the rows were for those who planted it. This taught us how to share.
Corn can be eaten fresh or dried. Unless the kernels are parched, dry corn must be ground to flour for humans to receive its nourishment. This requires hard work. Traditionally, while people are working with Corn, they meditate, trying to see themselves more clearly, to answer the big question: "Who am I?" If you have tried to pund corn, perhaps you learned something about yourself in the process!
All parts of the Corn were used: the husks made mats, dolls, masks; the stalks could be used for fuel; even the cobs had their uses. This taught us to value and use all of the Creation's gifts.
We give a great greeting and thanksgiving for our sister Corn and to the Creation which works with her to provide her nourishment to us.
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Saturday, March 14, 2009
Lord Byron---She walks in Beauty
Heads You Lose - Tales You Lose
Friday, March 13, 2009
The Beautiful Lady
We believe eyes are the windows to one’s soul .
Similarly. books are the windows to the world.
One can easily get lost in their words, the places they take you and the people you get to meet in them.
This is why it is important to get children enthused in the world of books as soon as they are able to look at pictures and colors. Each book should be treasured, read slowly to absorb and enjoy the words and meanings in the way the author intended them to be
Jackie Kennedy, ( and Marie Shriver being an author herself) believed in books and children.
She was a reporter and believed women should have careers because as she put it, what will you do after they leave? She took her parenting role seriously and believed nothing was more important than “enlarging” a child’s world.
As we all know, destiny dealt her Camelot a severe blow. From her experience we learned how children suffer from the errors of their Fathers. The Kennedy boys suffered from the errors of their Father, since they could not do what he promised people they would do, if they got elected.
They loved their country and paid a high price for it.
Jackie Kennedy, brought up in times of typewriters with ribbon filled ink and strict secretarial discipline with regard to printed errors on paper (something our kids will never know), prided herself in who she was.
She graced the world with her eloquence and people loved her steadfastness and quiet strength standing beside an equally strong, eloquent young man, who was her President.
Personally, she wanted a life lived and not recorded believing history was for the bitter. Looking back in time at all the savagery, is truly a bitter pill to swallow.
Jackie was one of the first to say that no matter how times change, every woman carries “a lady” in her.
Her testimony always reiterated the fact that she was “a woman” above all else but she referred to the word “LADY” as something sounding like a saddle horse. Comical in that she would also say: A camel makes an elephant feel like a jet plane.
It all comes down to a question of taste. Some men like 747’s and others enjoy jets.
With reference to Marylin Monroe, it would be imagined, she’d say there are two kinds of women.
Those who want power in the world and those who want power in bed.
Today’s Lady wants power in the world as we see with women like Hillary Clinton, who compete for the same jobs as their husbands. Hillary took an active part as
First LADY with her famous quote: WE ARE THE PRESIDENT.
Camilla got Charles away from the dramatic Diana, with horses. Horses do have an effect on people.
She continued to educated women.
First you marry for love she said. Then you marry for money and the third time you marry for companionship.
No matter how well you are known you hold in your heart the emotions of a simple person for the moments that are the most important of those we know on earth…. birth marriage and death.
In the end she wrote:
I have been through a lot, suffered a great deal but I have also had lots of happy moments as well.
Every moment one lives is different from the other
The good, the bad, hardship, the joy, the tragedy, love and happiness are all interwoven into one single indescribable whole that is called life.
You cannot separate the good from the bad and perhaps there is no need to do so.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
What is a lady?
According to definition, a Lady is a woman with refined taste. She is polite, dignified, with a great upbringing, good manners and tastefully adorned.
We want to be acknowledged, respected and loved for who we are.
We choose role models to emulate like First Lady Jaqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis, and Princess Diana Spencer, and First Lady to the State of
When death parts us, we are at a loss. We enshrine them as we would any beloved person in our own family.
Unlike yesterday’s Lady, today’s Lady comes in all styles and packages.
We include First Lady Carla Bruni Sarkozy of France, Argentinian First Lady Christina Fernandez de Kirchner, Imelda Marcos of the Philipines,Svetlana Medvedeva of Russia, German Eva Louise Koehler, Britain’s Sarah Brown,
In retrospect we also have other role models like Oprah and Martha Stewart. They have somewhat of a tarnished past but have become very strong women, overcoming all odds in a world full of critics.
All these women give us a sense of self worth. They empower us by giving us reason to believe that in this life, anything is possible.
They live the American Dream and the dream is still out there for all of us to live.
Our adventure begins with Laura Bush, a librarian. She made people laugh by admitting to people she was a Desperate Housewife. She eased tensions by poking fun at her husband, making him look human and vulnerable to the world while playing the role of a War President.
Tina Fey reported that when asked how she would help juvenile delinquents with substance abuse problems, she answered: “Oh like I always do. I marry them and have their children.”
Laura Bush tickled many with her unexpected one liners, criticizing her Mother in law, admitting to going to men strip clubs, admitting to killing a person with her car as a teen, alluding to her husband as once giving a horse, a hand job. (Things we all do).
Her wit and personality had the ability to soften many hard core people who saw her as a human being and not just as a wife of the most powerful man in the world and the comedian in chief.
She was a woman of her own making – A LADY. Every one who watched her, learned from her.
Elizabeth Browning wrote a poem I’d like to include in
A Woman's Shortcomings
She has laughed as softly as if she sighed,
She has counted six, and over,
Of a purse well filled, and a heart well tried -
Oh, each a worthy lover!
They "give her time"; for her soul must slip
Where the world has set the grooving;
She will lie to none with her fair red lip:
But love seeks truer loving.
She trembles her fan in a sweetness dumb,
As her thoughts were beyond recalling;
With a glance for one, and a glance for some,
From her eyelids rising and falling;
Speaks common words with a blushful air,
Hears bold words, unreproving;
But her silence says - what she never will swear -
And love seeks better loving.
Go, lady! lean to the night-guitar,
And drop a smile to the bringer;
Then smile as sweetly, when he is far,
At the voice of an in-door singer.
Bask tenderly beneath tender eyes;
Glance lightly, on their removing;
And join new vows to old perjuries -
But dare not call it loving!
Unless you can think, when the song is done,
No other is soft in the rhythm;
Unless you can feel, when left by One,
That all men else go with him;
Unless you can know, when unpraised by his breath,
That your beauty itself wants proving;
Unless you can swear "For life, for death!" -
Oh, fear to call it loving!
Unless you can muse in a crowd all day
On the absent face that fixed you;
Unless you can love, as the angels may,
With the breadth of heaven betwixt you;
Unless you can dream that his faith is fast,
Through behoving and unbehoving;
Unless you can die when the dream is past -
Oh, never call it loving!
Elizabeth Barrett Browning

