Friday, October 18, 2013

Cyber Bullying

This cyber bullying and suicide of kids today is sending people a
 message but to me, its not the same message 
other people are getting.
I had a boy at school who would keep punching me in the 
shoulder any time he had a chance until it began hurting
 from all the punches. I went home and told my Mother 
that I didn't know why he was punching me all the time and 
she said well it's probably because he loves you and wants
 to get your attention.
People who bully are hurt people themselves.
This simple explanation changed my whole world.
The next day I went to school and in front of every one 
said:" If you love me just say so.Don't punch me.
I don't like seeing you so hurt and suffering like this."
I was shocked to see my Mother was right. He turned all red,
 the kids laughed and he ran away and never did this to me again.
So this is just a kid problem and not an issue 
for the police and crime unit.
A healthy mind would think and ask itself why?
Why do they bully and then seek a solution.
If someone tells me to kill myself, my natural 
response would be "Why don't you?
Are you telling me that in this big world, 
there is no room for the both of us to exist?
Do you want an old fashion show down as
 they did in the cow boy days?
What's your problem?"

The more you get them to talk the more you and 
very one else will understand who has the real problem.
Every thing goes full circle and whatever a person
 says to you , goes back to him.
So you are not alone and therefore,
 there is no reason to kill yourself esp if the other person 
has no plans to. Obviously the problem does not lie
 with you but the other person.
No one is perfect in this world. Every one has issues.
This is why even finding the right psychiatrist for you is important.
 Not every one is the right one for you, for the person you are.

Kids are taught things they should not be taught, too 
early in life and then they are expected to have
 the "maturity" to deal with adult issues, they are also not ready for.
Then society blames bad behavior kids, instead of putting the blame 
on pressure groups, lobbyists, and self interest groups, who find excuses to
 destroy our children by destroying their young lives and 
dreams and fantasies with their issues.
10 Commandments Ladies and Gentlemen.
10 Commandments.

When it rains, most birds head for shelter.
The eagle is the only bird that, in order to avoid the rain,
starts flying above the clouds.

No wonder God wants us to spread our wings and soar with eagles.

God Bless all who share this.



Magia da Inês said...

彡♡♡♫° ·.

Crianças são sempre crianças e só querem apoio e amor dos adultos para crescerem saudáveis.
É isso que falta nesse mundo!...
Bom fim de semana!
¸.•°♡♡♫° ·.

A Lady's Life said...

I am so glad you agree magia.
Children are children and need support and that's what is missing in the world

Sandy Carlson said...

It's hard for some kids to get the lesson that they need to soar above the clouds. I work with a woman who is 30 and still doesn't get it. She lets every word of criticism go straight to her heart and even seeks the company of the mean people in her life. It's a major moment to realize we just don't have to. There is peace in this lesson.... It's too bad so many wounded hearts hear the bad news rather than the good.

A Free Spirit Butterfly said...

I love your post and the amazing response to the boy who kept punching you.

I agree, they are lacking love at home and discipline.

The 10 Commandments is not valued in today's society.

I'm almost 49 and I still respect and "fear" my parents. Lol

LOVE you!

A Lady's Life said...

parents can't control their kids any more when society says kids don't belong to them. Once they go to school other power group take over.
It is amazing that a child who doesn;t know how to read and write, nothing about history,math, science, culture......
knows about sex drugs and gay issues.
no ones head was cluttered with things like that.

A Lady's Life said...

Sandy so true. It's the same as the people who get beat up by their spouces and make excuses for it.That it was their fault. It's natural for people to disagree but as in everything there is a limit.I find people who bully, have their own issues to resolve. I personally never hated any one and most bullied kids ran to hide behind me cause no one for some reason messed with me.
It was useless lol So I guess I was never a part of the so called
popular kids but I was popular in my own way. I was like Frank Sinatra, who did it my way. lol